Who Do You Spend Your Time With? And Why It Matters

Motivational speaker Jim Rohn said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with.

Whether you agree or not, we cannot ignore the fact that we’re definitely influenced by the people that we spend the most time with in our lives.

And these people affect everything!

From our way of thinking, our financial situation, our self-esteem, all the way to the decisions we make and even our personalities to some degree.

Of course, we are all our own person, but research has shown that we’re more affected by our environments than we might realise.

So have a think about the people you spend the most time with.

Are they supportive, encouraging, and do they truly care about you?

That being said, while it’s ideal to be closely surrounded by positive, supportive people who want you to succeed, it’s also necessary to have your critics too. The ones who tell you exactly what you need to hear (even if you don’t like it).

It’s about balance.

You need honest, caring, supportive people who will have your back but also tell you when you’re being an ass.

Sometimes it’s worth considering who you let in to your “inner circle!”

You Have Your Fitness Journey, And I Have Mine. 

You have your fitness journey, and I have mine.

One isn’t necessarily better than the other.

Both just are.

After all, there are a thousand paths to get to the same destination.

Granted, one may get us there in less time than the other.

But as long as we’re enjoying what we’re doing then that’s all that matters.

So whether it’s Crossfit or Zumba, Lifting, Yoga, Swimming, Kickboxing or Walking. It really doesn’t matter.

What does matter is that we move. And find the joy in everything that we do!

What is Biomechanics Coaching?

802885653.pngOne of the questions I get over and over is… What is Biomechanics Coaching?

So let me explain…

I started working in fitness 18 years ago as a Personal Trainer and Class Instructor. And over those years I realised that there was something missing with regards to getting my clients to perform at their best without all the little niggles that come with training or even just our day to day life.

I felt at the time that Sports Massage would help me to help my clients. And so I retrained. And it did help. Initially. But then I found that my clients were having to come back to me again and again as the issues kept coming back. I realised that there was something else missing. Something I wasn’t seeing.

Eventually I retrained once again, this time as a Biomechanics Coach (via Biomechanics Education). This meant that I could now assess the body as a whole, screening the different joints, muscles and nerves and therefore having a process of which to follow in order to correct the dysfunctions within the body that were discovered. This was the link I was missing.

Becoming a Biomechanics Coach meant I was able to combine the skills that I already possessed within Fitness & Manual Therapy with a screening process to ensure that what I was doing was making a difference. I was now able to assess, not just guess. ​

Biomechanics is so different from anything else I have come across. Not only do we stop chasing pain and work on the cause of the issues (as opposed to treating just the symptoms), we also allow our clients to ‘fix’ themselves. At the end of the day, who knows their body better than anyone else? It’s efficient, it’s safe, it’s practical and it get results.

Let me give you an example…

So your knee hurts when you run. You have done the usual recovery shenanigans (Rest, Ice, Compression, Elevation) and the pain went. You started running again and the knee pain came back. You go to your doctor and he checks your knees. He says they’re fine. So you go out running but the pain is still there.

So you stop running and again do what you have read or been advised about (Hello ice. Hello compression bandages). Then back to the doctor you go. Again he checks your knees. Nothing wrong he tells you. ‘Maybe you should quit running’ he suggests. ‘Maybe just walk’ he continues.

So let’s have a think about this.

If you have pain in your knees but your doctor tells you there is nothing wrong with your knees then maybe, just maybe, your knees are not the problem.

For example, if your pelvis isn’t quite moving the way it should be then this can lead to what’s referred to as a Leg Length Discrepancy. If you have a leg length discrepancy (with one leg being shorter than the other) then this can cause the body to compensate as it always wants to keep the head above the pelvis.

But how does this relate to your knees? Well the longer leg may shorten by bending the knee (think knock-kneed position). This can then increases the load and impact on the knee joints which can lead to pain and injury of your knee when you’re running.

So what do you do? Well….you correct the mechanical causes of the knee pain (ie the dysfunctional pelvis) and the knee pain will often correct itself.

This is what Biomechanics is….treating the cause of the problem and not the symptom.

So in this case treating the pelvis (problem) as opposed to the knee pain (symptom).

A Biomechanics Coach may then use different techniques (such as muscle release exercises or deep tissue massage) in order to create changes. This is just one example of the issues that Biomechanics comes across.​

But what if it is not your knees that are the problem? What if it’s your back or your shoulder or anywhere else you can think of?

Thankfully Biomechanics Coaching allows us to view the body as a whole. So no matter where your issue feels to you, we are able to assess rather than just guess.

At the end of the day it is my job to enable you to move more freely, and this then tends to mean less pain. So regardless of where your issues lie, a Biomechanics Assessment can help us identify whether your pelvis is causing your shoulder restriction, or your thoracic spine is causing the tingling in your fingers, or any other possible symptoms and causes there may be.

But what if you don’t have any niggles? Can Biomechanics be of any use?


Biomechanics is about working with the body so as to allow optimal performance. So regardless of whether you want to improve the mechanics of your overhead squat, improve your running technique or ease those niggles, Biomechanics can help.

So if you have an issue that is not being resolved elsewhere or simply want to move more freely then please get in touch.

No Time To Train? No Problem…

Research has found that weekly resistance exercise sessions of 1-3 times per week OR the total amounting to 1-59 minutes were associated with approximately 40-70% less risk of total cardiovascular disease events.

And this was also regardless of aerobic exercise!

One of the things they also showed was that there was no significant risk reduction for more than four times per week or greater than 60 minutes of resistance exercise.

In a nutshell, even one time OR less than one hour per week of resistance exercise is beneficial (independent of aerobic exercise).

This is great news for those of us who struggle to fit in training sessions at the gym.

Even a few squats, press ups or pull ups each day can be of benefit to our health.


26 Things I Wish I Known When I Started My Business (From Those Who Have Learned The Hard Way)

A while back I asked Therapists and Coaches what advice they would give to someone just starting out in the industry. And after collaborating (and adding my own take on parts) here is what we came up with. Thank you so much to everyone who commented*. You ROCK!

And so, if you are a new Coach or Therapist (or are looking at becoming one) here are a few bits of advice that hopefully will help you on your journey….

1. Listen to your clients. I mean TRULY listen. Don’t just ‘hear’ them. Listen to what they may not actually be saying with words but want you to understand.

2. Be sure to enjoy what you do. If you enjoy what you do you will never work a day in your life.

3. Continue being curious. Never stop learning. Always be a white belt. You do not know enough. Ever.

4. Don’t assume that having a large number of skills, treatments and qualifications will bring you more clients. Sometimes the opposite is true. Find YOUR thing and do it well. Specialise in that. Become the best in that field. Don’t just have a bunch of skills that you’re half good at.

5. Remember that what you love and have a personal interest in will change over the years. This is ok. Follow your heart.

6. Meet all your clients with curiosity, never judgement. EVER!

7. Remember that your clients know themselves better than you or anyone else ever can. Help them to believe that too and facilitate their self learning.

8. Don’t be afraid to admit you don’t know. If a client has a condition you’ve never heard of, ask them about it. Ask what it is like for THEM. Ask how it affects THEM. Once again, your client knows best. They will be grateful that you want to understand their side.

9. Be true to yourself. Know what is right for you and what isn’t. There is nothing wrong with changing your mind. Follow your gut.

10. Don’t listen to anyone that doesn’t have their own SUCCESSFUL business. Everyone is an ‘expert’. Trust in those that live it every day.

11. Remember that there are no quick fixes or short cuts to gaining experience. Serve your time. Build your knowledge through experience.

12. Don’t stress about lack of clients to begin with. Have patience. They will come. Trust the process.

13. Treat every client like they’re the first person you’ve seen that day. Even if you’ve seen 10 other clients. Each person deserves to be treated with your FULL attention and enthusiasm. If you can’t manage this then you need to see less clients per day. Quality matters more than quantity.

14. Keep things simple. Simple works. We all have a tendency to believe that complicated is better. It’s not.

15. Understand your WHY. Why you do what you do? What drives you to want to help people feel/ move better? Knowing your why will help when times get tough and you doubt your choices.

16. Spend money on the best education you can afford. Spend time researching that education. Make sure the education will give you tools for you to use in the real world, not just a piece of paper.

17. Challenge everything. Question everything. Then question and challenge again. Never stop. And if something doesn’t feel right don’t just accept it because someone told you. Question it. Challenge it. And research what you don’t know. Take everything in with a grain of salt. There is as much good advice as there is bad, but take it all in and learn from it.

18. Be your authentic self. And never trade your authenticity for approval. Be YOU. After all, you are what makes what you do original. We can all do the same treatments or therapies yet it is what YOU bring to your work as an individual that is most important.

19. Remember that YOU are the thing that makes your business work. No-one else is doing what you’re doing, because no one else is you. Don’t be put off by the competition – there is none! Learn to sell what YOU have, not what you think people want.

20. Mistakes are inevitable. You will make them. Embrace them. The more mistakes you make the more you learn, the more you grow. Just make sure you learn from them. Adapt.

21. Listen to your elders. There’s nothing like experience. But remember to absorb what is useful. Discard what is not. And add what is specifically your own.

22. Give equal attention to your personal development as well as your skills development. This really is non-negotiable. Or at least it should be. Sometimes even coaches need coaching and therapists need therapy.

23. Unsure of where to start? Start by writing a list of all the things you need to do to help you reach your goal. Then for each item make another list of steps to get there. If each step still seems to big, then break it down again. And again…until you’re finally at a level you can handle. Then do the first thing on one of the lists.

24. Take care of yourself. Learn to say no. As a new therapist/ Coach you think you have to take EVERYTHING that comes your way. You don’t. Set and decide your working hours as well as you-time in the very beginning. We give so much of our energy, emotion and time to our clients which needs refuelling. You will get busy and you will earn money but make sure that YOU are in control of your business and not the other way around. Take care not to burn the candle at both ends.

25. Don’t compare your Day 1 to somebody else’s Day 100. It’s easy to get lost comparing ourselves to those that have been in the business a lot longer than we have. Never compare yourself to anyone. YOU are unique regardless of how long you have been in the business.

26. Treat everyone you meet like they could completely change your life. You never know who you are talking to. They could just be the gatekeeper to your destiny.


Again, a huge thank you goes out to: 

*Tanja Foy – Lisa Rowley – Jason Croucher – Samantha Dean – Rory French – Louise Huntley – Huw Buckley – Louise Clancy – Tracy Swindell – Rachel France – Julie Makarewicz – Sharyn Doris Oldman – Laura Inglis – Kirstie Wilton – Sarah Melton-Whitelam – Stevie Barr – Senae Mitchell – Martin Meredith – Jessica Cajka – Mairi Taylor – Nick Lngrd – Melanie Jones – Helen Vickers – Debbie Ross – Sally Sisson – Fiona Higgs – Debbie Ross – Caroline Toshack – Susie Cubitt Cooper – Jeni Broughton

Stress & Healing

I cannot repeat enough how stress reduction (or maybe more appropriately, stress management) is an essential part of the healing process.

Over and over again I have seen that if we have two clients/ patients with a similar diagnosis, the client/ patient who works at reducing their stress levels (either by removing the stress or by increasing their resilience to it) will have a faster recovery and better results than the one who does nothing about it.

And this is not just my observation.

The reality is that studies have shown time and time again that stress slows healing. The more stress we have or rather the less we are able to cope with stress, the slower the healing within our bodies.

Stress can also lead to inflammation so even if there is nothing that needs healing in the first place (as in an injury), the body can still be responding the same.

Another thing that really makes a difference is a positive attitude.

Yes this may be a tough one to have especially if you are frustrated and are in pain, but if you can see the light at the end of the tunnel, if you know that what you are doing really will bring about change, the body responds in a positive way.

The evidence regarding the power of the brain is mounting up by the day.

Let’s not ignore the impact that our thoughts, whether positive or negative can have on the physiology of our body.

We simply cannot separate one from the other.

So I ask you, what are YOU doing to make yourself more resilient to stress?





Cupping Therapy: An Introduction

It may look like some kind of torture (1) and may temporarily leave strange circles on your skin (cup-kisses), but it’s so unbelievably effective.

For thousands of years, cupping has been practiced in countries like China, Egypt, and Greece. Using cups to create a negative pressure on the skin, therapists can encourage healing, reduce pain and inflammation and promote good health. The cups used may be glass (using fire to create a vacuum), plastic (using a pump) or silicone and can be used dynamically or statically.

The science behind the suction is fascinating and something I will be delving into further (and sharing with you guys obviously!) over the next few months.

So what can it help with? Well to start it helps with inflammation, pain and blood circulation.

As well as:

  • Lower back pain & Sciatica
  • Tennis elbow & forearm pain
  • Wrist pain / Carpal tunnel
  • Neck pain / whiplash
  • Shoulder & rotator cuff injuries
  • Sore hamstrings / Hamstring strain
  • Knee pain / injuries
  • Shin splints
  • Plantar fasciitis
  • Reducing Scars
  • Cellulite

And that’s just the tip of the iceberg. Cupping is used for so many systemic conditions and ailments, although that’s for another post!

I’m so excited to share this information with you. As therapists there is only so much we can do with our hands. And we certainly can’t create the negative pressure that the cups provide.

And it’s this negative pressure that can allow for the separation of adhered or “stuck’ tissues which can help clear out any interstitial debris (2), improve circulation, clear congestion or stagnation and rehydrate the tissues.

It’s really no wonder that its been passed around for generations and being used by Olympic athletes and Hollywood stars. But more importantly…everyday people!


(1) Please do not bother googling….it’s nothing like the horror stories you see!

(2) This is any material that the body can not dispose of on it’s own such as old blood from an injury, cellular waste, lactic acid, medications and toxins.